Small Group Study: Walking Through the Teachings of Jesus

Session Overview

In this study, I’m guiding the group through the teachings of Jesus, looking at them through the lens of first‑century history and grounding each theme in Scripture from the King James Version. This could be done in a single week, but I suggest splitting it up into at least three or four weeks to gain more insight and understanding of the scripture and how it can transform each participant. Each section includes:

  • A short teaching
  • A KJV passage
  • Historical context
  • Discussion questions
  • A practical application

1. Love at the Center

Teaching

When I look at Jesus’ message, I see that love isn’t just one teaching among many — it’s the foundation. Jesus took familiar commandments and fused them into a single, radical ethic.

Scripture

“Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart… Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.” — Matthew 22:37–39 (KJV)

Historical Context

In Jesus’ day, religious teachers debated which laws mattered most. His answer cut through centuries of tradition and placed love — not ritual — at the center of faith.

Discussion Questions

  • Why do you think Jesus emphasized love above all else?
  • What makes loving our neighbor difficult in today’s world?
  • How does this command reshape our priorities?

Application

Identify one relationship where you can intentionally practice Christ‑like love this week.

2. The Kingdom of God

Teaching

Jesus spoke of the kingdom not as a distant future event but as a present reality breaking into the world.

Scripture

“The kingdom of God is within you.” — Luke 17:21 (KJV)

Historical Context

Many Jews expected a political revolution to overthrow Rome. Jesus instead described a kingdom defined by humility, mercy, and justice — a kingdom that begins in the heart.

Discussion Questions

  • How does Jesus’ definition of the kingdom differ from political expectations?
  • What does it mean for the kingdom to be “within” us?
  • Where do you see signs of God’s kingdom today?

Application

Practice one “kingdom value” this week — mercy, peacemaking, humility, or generosity.

3. Radical Compassion and Inclusion

Teaching

Jesus consistently moved toward people society pushed away — the sick, the poor, the sinful, the foreign.

Scripture

“They that be whole need not a physician, but they that are sick.” — Matthew 9:12 (KJV)

Historical Context

Purity laws and social boundaries shaped daily life. Jesus crossed those boundaries, revealing a God who sees dignity in every person.

Discussion Questions

  • Who were the “outsiders” in Jesus’ time?
  • Who are the “outsiders” in our communities today?
  • What keeps us from extending compassion?

Application

Reach out to someone who may feel overlooked — a neighbor, coworker, or church member.

4. Forgiveness as a Lifestyle

Teaching

Jesus didn’t treat forgiveness as optional — he treated it as essential.

Scripture

“Until seventy times seven.” — Matthew 18:22 (KJV)

Historical Context

In an honor‑shame culture, revenge was normal. Jesus’ call to continual forgiveness challenged deeply rooted social norms.

Discussion Questions

  • Why is forgiveness so central to Jesus’ teaching?
  • What misconceptions do we have about forgiveness?
  • How does forgiveness free both parties?

Application

Reflect on someone you need to forgive — or someone from whom you need to seek forgiveness.

5. Humility and Servanthood

Teaching

Jesus redefined greatness as service.

Scripture

“Whosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant.” — Matthew 20:27 (KJV)

Historical Context

Roman culture celebrated power and dominance. Jesus’ model of leadership — washing feet, embracing children — was shocking.

Discussion Questions

  • How does Jesus’ definition of greatness challenge our culture?
  • What does servanthood look like in everyday life?
  • Why is humility so difficult?

Application

Choose one act of service you can do anonymously this week.

6. Integrity of Heart

Teaching

Jesus cared more about inward transformation than outward performance.

Scripture

“Blessed are the pure in heart.” — Matthew 5:8 (KJV)

Historical Context

Public displays of piety were common. Jesus redirected attention to sincerity, authenticity, and inner purity.

Discussion Questions

  • What’s the difference between outward religion and inward transformation?
  • How can we cultivate purity of heart?
  • What are signs that our motives need examining?

Application

Spend time in prayer or reflection, asking God to reveal any hidden motives.

7. Trust and Faith

Teaching

Jesus invited people to trust God in a world filled with uncertainty.

Scripture

“Take no thought for your life…” — Matthew 6:25 (KJV)

Historical Context

Life under Roman rule was unpredictable. Jesus’ call to trust God was both comforting and countercultural.

Discussion Questions

  • What anxieties do you struggle to release?
  • How does trusting God change the way we live?
  • What practices help build trust?

Application

Name one worry you will intentionally surrender to God this week.

8. A Call to Transformation

Teaching

Jesus’ message always pointed toward change — a reorientation of life.

Scripture

“Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” — Matthew 4:17 (KJV)

Historical Context

“Repent” meant more than feeling sorry — it meant turning around, adopting a new way of living aligned with God’s kingdom.

Discussion Questions

  • What does repentance look like in daily life?
  • Why is transformation often uncomfortable?
  • Where is God inviting you to grow?

Application

Choose one area of your life where you sense God calling you to change, and take one concrete step toward that change.

Closing Reflection

Invite the group to share:

  • One insight they gained
  • One challenge they feel
  • One step they want to take

Walking Through the Teachings of Jesus

When I look at the teachings of Jesus, I’m struck by how rooted they are in the world he lived in—first‑century Judea under Roman occupation, a place charged with political tension, religious expectation, and deep longing for deliverance. Understanding that world helps me appreciate just how bold, countercultural, and transformative his message really was.

Below, I’m sharing the major teachings of Jesus as I’ve come to understand them, with historical context and KJV passages that illuminate his words. Love at the Center of Everything

Love is the Center of Everything

In Jesus’ time, Jewish teachers often debated which commandment mattered most. When Jesus answered, he didn’t invent something new—he drew from the heart of the Hebrew Scriptures. But the way he fused these commands into a single ethic of love was revolutionary.

He said:

“Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart… This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.” — Matthew 22:37–39 (KJV)

In a world fractured by class, ethnicity, and religious sects, Jesus insisted that love—not ritual, not status, not power—was the true measure of faith.

The Kingdom of God: A Radical Reimagining of Reality

First‑century Jews longed for God’s kingdom to overthrow Rome and restore Israel. Jesus took that expectation and turned it inside out. He described the kingdom not as a political revolt but as a spiritual reality already breaking into the present.

He proclaimed:

“The kingdom of God is within you.” — Luke 17:21 (KJV)

Instead of calling for armed resistance, he called for transformed hearts. Instead of promising dominance, he promised justice, mercy, and peace. His Sermon on the Mount flipped the social order:

“Blessed are the poor in spirit… Blessed are the meek… Blessed are the peacemakers.” — Matthew 5:3–9 (KJV)

This was a kingdom defined not by force, but by character.

Radical Compassion and Inclusion

In Jesus’ world, purity laws and social customs created strict boundaries—between Jew and Gentile, clean and unclean, righteous and sinner. Jesus crossed those boundaries constantly.

He touched lepers, ate with tax collectors, spoke with Samaritans, and defended the marginalized. His actions embodied his teaching:

“They that be whole need not a physician, but they that are sick.” — Matthew 9:12 (KJV)

By lifting up the outcast, he revealed a God who sees dignity where society sees disgrace.

Forgiveness as a Way of Life

Forgiveness was not a common virtue in a culture shaped by honor and shame. Yet Jesus made it central to discipleship.

When Peter asked how often he should forgive, Jesus answered:

“I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.” — Matthew 18:22 (KJV)

In a world where revenge was normal and grudges were generational, Jesus taught forgiveness as liberation—for both the offender and the offended.

Humility and Servanthood

In Roman society, greatness was measured by power, wealth, and status. Jesus inverted that hierarchy completely.

He told his disciples:

“Whosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant.” — Matthew 20:27 (KJV)

And then he lived it—washing their feet, embracing children, and identifying with “the least of these.” His model of leadership was not domination but self‑giving love.

Integrity of Heart

Religious life in Jesus’ day often emphasized external obedience—ritual purity, public prayer, visible piety. Jesus didn’t dismiss these practices, but he pushed deeper.

He taught:

“Blessed are the pure in heart.” — Matthew 5:8 (KJV)

And he warned against hypocrisy:

“This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth… but their heart is far from me.” — Matthew 15:8 (KJV)

For Jesus, the true battleground of faith was the inner life.

Faith and Trust in God

Life under Roman rule was uncertain—tax burdens were heavy, poverty was common, and violence was always near. Jesus invited people into a trust that defied their circumstances.

He said:

“Take no thought for your life… behold the fowls of the air… your heavenly Father feedeth them.” — Matthew 6:25–26 (KJV)

This wasn’t escapism. It was an invitation to live with courage, grounded in God’s care rather than fear.

A Call to Transformation

Ultimately, Jesus’ teachings weren’t just ideas—they were an invitation to change direction entirely. His first public message was simple:

“Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” — Matthew 4:17 (KJV)

In his world, “repent” meant more than feeling sorry. It meant reorienting one’s entire life—values, priorities, relationships—toward God’s vision for humanity.

Final Thoughts

When I reflect on Jesus’ teachings in their historical setting, I see just how disruptive and hopeful they were. He wasn’t offering a private spirituality or a political program. He was offering a new way of being human—rooted in love, shaped by humility, and sustained by trust in God.

Small Group Study

Discovering the Path of Salvation

Small Group Study Guide: Wisdom from Proverbs (KJV)

1. The Fear of the Lord (Proverbs 1:7)

Icebreaker Questions

  • a moment you realized you didn’t have all the answers
  • a person you consider wise and why
  • a time when advice changed your direction

Key Verse (KJV): “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.”

Discussion

  • humble dependence: What does it look like to approach life with reverence rather than self‑reliance
  • teachability: Why is being open to correction so central to wisdom
  • spiritual grounding: How does acknowledging God shape our decisions

Application

  • Identify one area where you need to slow down and seek God’s perspective this week.

2. Walking the Path of Wisdom (Proverbs 3:5–6)

Icebreaker Questions

  • a habit that helps you stay grounded
  • a time you trusted your own understanding and it backfired
  • a decision you’re currently seeking direction on

Key Verses (KJV): “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”

Discussion

  • daily discipline: What small habits help you stay aligned with God’s direction
  • course correction: How do you respond when you realize you’ve taken a wrong turn
  • intentional living: What helps you choose purpose over autopilot

Application

  • Choose one daily practice (prayer, journaling, Scripture reading) to strengthen your walk.

3. The Power of Words (Proverbs 15:1)

Icebreaker Questions

  • a compliment you still remember
  • a time someone’s words hurt more than expected
  • a phrase you try to live by

Key Verse (KJV): “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”

Discussion

  • thoughtful speech: When have you seen gentle words defuse tension
  • truthfulness: Why is honesty essential for healthy relationships
  • gentle answers: What makes it hard to respond softly in conflict

Application

  • Practice pausing before responding in a tense moment this week.

4. Integrity and Community (Proverbs 20:7)

Icebreaker Questions

  • someone you trust and what built that trust
  • a time you saw integrity in action
  • a value you want to pass on to others

Key Verse (KJV): “The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him.”

Discussion

  • honest dealings: How does integrity build trust
  • kindness as strength: What does strong kindness look like in action
  • justice-mindedness: How can we reflect God’s heart for fairness

Application

  • Identify one relationship where you can practice greater consistency or honesty.

5. Diligence and Stability (Proverbs 10:4)

Icebreaker Questions

  • a task you’re proud you stuck with
  • a goal you’ve been procrastinating on
  • a routine that helps you stay productive

Key Verse (KJV): “He becometh poor that dealeth with a slack hand: but the hand of the diligent maketh rich.”

Discussion

  • consistent effort: What helps you stay faithful in small tasks
  • wise planning: How do you balance planning with trusting God
  • avoiding complacency: What distractions pull you away from diligence

Application

  • Set one realistic goal for the week and commit to steady progress.

6. Wisdom in Relationships (Proverbs 17:17)

Icebreaker Questions

  • a friend who has shaped your life
  • a quality you value most in relationships
  • a time someone showed up for you in adversity

Key Verse (KJV): “A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

Discussion

  • choosing companions wisely: How do your closest relationships shape you
  • healthy boundaries: Where might boundaries bring peace
  • loyalty and faithfulness: What does steadfast love look like in friendships

Application

  • Reach out to someone who has supported you and express gratitude.

7. Pride vs. Humility (Proverbs 16:18)

Icebreaker Questions

  • a funny moment when pride got the best of you
  • a person who models humility well
  • a lesson you learned the hard way

Key Verse (KJV): “Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.”

Discussion

  • self-awareness: How can we recognize pride in ourselves
  • teachability: What helps you receive correction well
  • balanced confidence: How do you stay confident without becoming prideful

Application

  • Ask someone you trust for honest feedback in one area of growth.

Closing Reflection

“Happy is the man that findeth wisdom.”Proverbs 3:13 (KJV) Encourage your group to take one small, faithful step toward wisdom this week.

The Timeless Lessons of Proverbs: Ancient Wisdom for a Modern World

The book of Proverbs reads like a conversation across centuries — a collection of insights that still feel startlingly relevant. Its wisdom isn’t abstract or mystical; it’s practical, earthy, and deeply human. Below are some of its most enduring themes, each paired with a KJV verse that captures its heart.

The Fear of the Lord Is the Beginning of Wisdom

Proverbs opens with a foundational truth: wisdom begins with humility and reverence. “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.”Proverbs 1:7 (KJV)

  • humble dependence: recognizing our limits
  • spiritual orientation: grounding decisions in deeper values
  • inner teachability: staying open to correction

Wisdom Is a Path, Not a Destination

Proverbs treats wisdom as a lifelong pursuit shaped by daily choices. “In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”Proverbs 3:6 (KJV)

  • daily discipline: small habits shaping character
  • course correction: learning without shame
  • intentional living: choosing direction over drift

Words Carry Power

Few books speak more about speech than Proverbs. Words can heal or harm. “A soft answer turneth away wrath.”Proverbs 15:1 (KJV)

  • thoughtful speech: pausing before reacting
  • truthfulness: clarity over manipulation
  • gentle answers: de-escalating conflict

Character Shapes Community

Integrity isn’t just personal — it affects everyone around us. “The just man walketh in his integrity.”Proverbs 20:7 (KJV)

  • honest dealings: building trust
  • kindness as strength: using influence well
  • justice-mindedness: standing for what’s right

Diligence Leads to Stability

Proverbs consistently praises steady, faithful work. “The hand of the diligent maketh rich.”Proverbs 10:4 (KJV)

  • consistent effort: showing up even when it’s hard
  • wise planning: preparing for the future
  • avoiding complacency: resisting procrastination

Relationships Require Wisdom

Proverbs offers grounded relational guidance — from friendships to family. “A friend loveth at all times.”Proverbs 17:17 (KJV)

  • choosing companions wisely: surrounding yourself with the right people
  • healthy boundaries: protecting emotional space
  • loyalty and faithfulness: valuing long-term trust

Pride Leads to Downfall, Humility to Growth

Pride blinds; humility opens the door to wisdom. “Pride goeth before destruction.”Proverbs 16:18 (KJV)

  • self-awareness: noticing blind spots
  • teachability: welcoming correction
  • balanced confidence: strength without arrogance

Wisdom Is Ultimately About Flourishing

Proverbs paints a picture of a life that works — grounded, peaceful, and purposeful. “Happy is the man that findeth wisdom.”Proverbs 3:13 (KJV)

Discovering the Path of Salvation

Living What I Believe: A Personal Journey Through the Book of James

When I first began reading the book of James, I didn’t expect it to confront me so directly. But from the opening lines, I felt as though James was speaking straight into my life, urging me not just to believe but to live what I claimed to believe. His words challenged me to examine the gap between my faith and my actions — a gap I could no longer ignore.

Learning to See Trials Differently

James opens with a command that once puzzled me: “Count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations” (James 1:2). Joy? In trials? Yet as I walked through my own difficult seasons, I began to understand what he meant. Hardship wasn’t meant to break me but to shape me. It produced patience, depth, and a kind of spiritual maturity I never would have gained in comfort.

Instead of asking, “Why is this happening?”, I slowly learned to ask, “What is God forming in me through this?”

Becoming a Doer, Not Just a Hearer

One of the verses that struck me hardest was James 1:22: “Be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only.” I realized how often I had listened to sermons, read Scripture, or talked about faith without letting any of it change my behavior.

James forced me to confront the truth: real faith shows up in real life. If I claimed to follow Christ, my actions needed to reflect His character — in my choices, my habits, and the way I treated people.

Watching My Words

James’s teaching on the tongue felt uncomfortably relevant. He wrote that “the tongue is a fire” (James 3:6), and I knew exactly what he meant. I had seen how a careless comment could wound someone deeply, or how a moment of frustration could ignite conflict.

Learning to pause, to speak gently, and to use my words to build rather than tear down became one of the most challenging — and transformative — parts of my journey.

Rejecting Favoritism

James’s warning against partiality also hit home. He asked bluntly, “Are ye not then partial in yourselves?” (James 2:4). I had to admit that I sometimes treated people differently based on what they could offer me or how comfortable I felt around them.

James reminded me that genuine faith sees every person with equal dignity. Christ didn’t show favoritism, and neither should I.

Understanding Faith and Works

Perhaps the most famous line in the book is James 2:17: “Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead.” For me, this wasn’t a condemnation — it was an invitation. James wasn’t saying I could earn salvation. He was saying that living faith naturally produces action.

It was a call to integrity: to let my life match my confession.

Choosing Humility

James’s words about humility challenged my pride. “God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble” (James 4:6). I began to see how often pride fueled my defensiveness, my impatience, and my desire to control outcomes.

Learning to submit to God, to let go of my need to be right, and to trust His leading brought a peace I hadn’t known before.

Becoming Part of a Caring Community

Toward the end of the letter, James paints a picture of a community that prays for the suffering, lifts up the weak, and restores those who wander. “Pray one for another” (James 5:16) became more than a verse — it became a practice.

I discovered that faith isn’t meant to be lived alone. It grows in community, in shared burdens, in mutual encouragement.

Why James Still Shapes Me

The book of James continues to challenge me, sharpen me, and call me to a deeper, more authentic walk with God. It reminds me daily that faith is not merely something I believe — it’s something I live. It quickly became one of my favorite books.

And every time I return to its pages, I hear James urging me again: Let your faith be visible. Let it be alive. Let it be real.

Discovering the Path of Salvation

Small Group Study: Stephen’s Speech in Acts 7

“A Story of Faithfulness, Rebellion, and Courage”

Session Goal

To understand why Stephen retells Israel’s history, what he reveals about God and human hearts, and how his message challenges us today.

1. Read the Passage Together

Acts 7:1–53 (Stephen’s speech) and optionally 7:54–60 (his martyrdom).

Encourage someone to read aloud with emotion—it’s a dramatic moment.

2. Opening Discussion

  • initial impressions of Stephen’s speech: What stood out or surprised you
  • emotional tone of the passage: How would you describe Stephen’s attitude
  • connection to Acts 6: How does this speech respond to the accusations against him

3. Why Does Stephen Tell Israel’s Story?

Stephen isn’t rambling—he’s building a case. Break it down:

A. Abraham (Acts 7:2–8)
  • God initiates covenant relationship
  • faith begins with obedience
B. Joseph (Acts 7:9–16)
  • God works through rejected deliverers
  • human jealousy cannot stop God’s plan
C. Moses (Acts 7:17–43)
  • Israel repeatedly rejects God’s chosen leaders
  • idolatry persists even after miracles
D. The Tabernacle & Temple (Acts 7:44–50)
  • God is not confined to buildings
  • true worship is obedience, not location
E. The Accusation (Acts 7:51–53)
  • stubborn hearts resist the Holy Spirit
  • pattern of rejecting God’s messengers
  • failure to keep the law they claim to defend

4. Key Themes to Explore

A: God’s Faithfulness vs. Human Rebellion
  • God keeps pursuing His people
  • people keep resisting His leadership
B: Rejected Deliverers

Joseph → Moses → the prophets → Jesus

  • God often sends help people don’t want
C: True Worship
  • God desires obedience more than structures
D: Courageous Witness
  • Stephen speaks truth even at great cost

5. Discussion Questions

Understanding the Text
  • Why does Stephen spend so much time on Moses
  • What patterns do you see in Israel’s history
  • How does Stephen reinterpret the temple
Personal Reflection
  • Where do we resist God’s leadership today
  • How do we respond when confronted with truth
  • What does courage look like in our context
Application
  • How can we become more receptive to the Holy Spirit
  • What “idols” compete for our loyalty
  • Where might God be calling us to boldness

6. Prayer Focus

  • softened hearts toward God’s correction
  • courage to speak truth with grace
  • awareness of God’s presence beyond buildings

7. Optional Activity

Have each person identify one “Stephen moment” in their life— a time they felt called to speak truth, stand firm, or trust God despite pressure.

Share in pairs or as a group.

Walking the Line Between Religion and Spirituality: My Journey of Faith

For most of my life, I thought religion and spirituality were the same thing. I grew up inside the rhythms of worship — the hymns, the prayers, the familiar cadence of scripture. Religion was the air I breathed, the structure that shaped my understanding of God and the world. As Scripture says, “train up a child in the way he should go” (Proverbs 22:6 KJV), and that early foundation stayed with me.

The Comfort of a Shared Faith

There’s something deeply grounding about belonging to a religious community. When I step into a sanctuary, I feel the weight of centuries of belief holding me up. The rituals, the teachings, the stories — they connect me to people who came long before me and to those who stand beside me now. It reminds me of the early church described in Acts, where believers continued steadfastly in doctrine and fellowship (Acts 2:42 KJV).

Religion gives me:

  • A shared language for talking about God
  • A community that prays with me and for me
  • Traditions that remind me I’m part of something bigger
  • A moral compass shaped by generations of wisdom

There’s beauty in that structure. It keeps me steady when life feels chaotic. It reminds me that faith isn’t just a private feeling; it’s a lived experience, woven into the fabric of a community — just as Hebrews encourages believers not to forsake assembling together (Hebrews 10:25 KJV).

Discovering the Quiet of Personal Spirituality

But somewhere along the way, I realized that while religion gave me a path, spirituality gave me a voice. I started praying in silence, not just in pews. I found God in early‑morning walks, in the stillness of breath, in the quiet corners of my own heart. It echoed the Psalmist’s call to “be still, and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10 KJV).

Spiritual practices — meditation, journaling, moments of solitude — helped me listen for God in ways I never had before. They weren’t replacements for my faith; they were extensions of it. They helped me understand that God doesn’t only speak through scripture or sermons. Sometimes God whispers in the spaces between, much like the still small voice Elijah heard (1 Kings 19:12 KJV).

Where the Two Meet in My Life

What surprised me most was how naturally religion and spirituality began to blend. My spiritual practices deepened my religious life, and my religious life gave context to my spiritual experiences.

I realized:

  • Rituals feel richer when I bring my own heart into them
  • Scripture speaks differently when I read it prayerfully, not just dutifully
  • God feels closer when I seek Him both in community and in solitude

It reminded me of Jesus’ words that true worshipers worship “in spirit and in truth” (John 4:24 KJV). The two aren’t opposites. They’re companions.

How I See the Difference Now

If I had to put it simply:

  • Religion is the shared path that guides me
  • Spirituality is the personal journey that transforms me

Religion gives me the structure to grow. Spirituality gives me the space to breathe. And both matter, because faith without works is dead (James 2:17 KJV), yet works without a living, personal faith are empty.

Spirituality is being led by the Holy Spirit” — What That Really Means

When I say spirituality, I’m not talking about vague feelings, energy, or self‑help routines. For me, true spirituality is being led by the Holy Spirit — the same Spirit Jesus promised would guide, comfort, and teach His followers.

The Bible makes this connection unmistakable:

  • “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.” (Romans 8:14 KJV)
  • “Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.” (Galatians 5:16 KJV)

In other words, spirituality isn’t something I generate from within myself. It’s something God produces in me when I yield to His Spirit.

Being led by the Spirit means…

1. Listening for God’s voice

Not in a mystical way, but in the quiet nudges, convictions, and reminders that align with Scripture. Jesus said the Spirit would “guide you into all truth” (John 16:13 KJV).

2. Bearing spiritual fruit

Real spirituality shows up in character — love, joy, peace, patience, and the rest of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23 KJV).

3. Living beyond my own strength

The Spirit empowers me to do what I could never do alone — forgive, endure, obey, and trust.

4. Being transformed from the inside out

The Spirit renews my mind, shapes my desires, and conforms me to Christ.

Without the Holy Spirit, “spirituality” becomes self‑focused. With the Holy Spirit, spirituality becomes Christ‑centered, Scripture‑anchored, and God‑directed.

It’s not about finding myself. It’s about following Him.

Why This Matters to My Faith

In a world where so many people are searching for meaning, I’ve come to believe that God meets us wherever we’re willing to look — in churches, in forests, in quiet rooms, in crowded sanctuaries. Some find Him through tradition. Others through personal exploration. Many, like me, through a blend of both.

My faith is stronger now because it’s both communal and personal. Rooted and growing. Ancient and alive. And maybe that’s the beauty of it: God isn’t limited to one path. He walks with us on all of them, just as He promised never to leave nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5 KJV).

Stephen’s Diatribe in Acts 7: Why His Words Still Shake Me Today

Acts 7 has always been a chapter that resonates with me as Stephen is my namesake. My parents started in a very small church in 1957, the year I was born. When born my parents chose the name Stephen to aid in my walk with Christ throughout my life-although there have been many twists and turns, I still love Jesus with my whole heart and proclain His name above all else.

Every time I read Acts 7, I’m struck by how bold, brilliant, and unsettling Stephen’s speech is. It’s often called his diatribe, but that word barely captures the force of what’s happening. This isn’t just a defense speech. It’s a sweeping retelling of Israel’s story, a prophetic confrontation, and the spark that ignites the next chapter of the early church.

Stephen stands before the Sanhedrin—accused of speaking against Moses, the Law, and the Temple—and instead of pleading for his life, he delivers the longest recorded speech in the entire book of Acts. And what he says still echoes with relevance.

Here’s what I see when I sit with Stephen’s words.

1. Stephen Reframes Israel’s Story—And Mine

Stephen starts with Abraham and walks through Joseph, Moses, the wilderness, and the building of the Temple. At first glance, it looks like a history lesson. But it’s not. It’s a reframing.

He’s showing that Israel’s story is not just about God’s faithfulness—it’s also about Israel’s repeated resistance.

And honestly, that hits close to home. I see my own patterns in that story:

  • God moves
  • I hesitate
  • God calls
  • I resist
  • God sends help
  • I push back

Stephen’s retelling becomes a mirror.

2. He Exposes a Pattern of Rejecting God’s Messengers

This is the heart of his argument.

  • Joseph was rejected by his brothers
  • Moses was rejected by his people
  • The prophets were rejected by the nation

Stephen’s point is painfully clear: “You’re doing the same thing to Jesus that your ancestors did to every messenger God ever sent.”

It’s a reminder that rejecting God rarely looks dramatic. It often looks like clinging to comfort, tradition, or control.

3. He Challenges Their View of the Temple

One of the accusations against Stephen was that he spoke against the Temple. Instead of denying it, he reframes the whole idea of sacred space.

He reminds them:

  • God met Abraham in Mesopotamia
  • God met Joseph in Egypt
  • God met Moses in Midian
  • God met Israel in the wilderness

The message is unmistakable: God is not confined to a building.

It’s a challenge I need too. I can easily shrink God down to the places and patterns I’m comfortable with. Stephen reminds me that God is always bigger.

4. He Confronts Hypocrisy With Prophetic Courage

Stephen ends with a sharp, fearless accusation:

  • “You resist the Holy Spirit.”
  • “You betrayed and murdered the Righteous One.”
  • “You received the Law but didn’t keep it.”

It’s raw. It’s direct. It’s costly.

And it’s a reminder that truth‑telling—real, Spirit‑filled truth‑telling—will always come with a price.

5. His Death Becomes a Turning Point

Stephen becomes the first Christian martyr, and his death triggers a wave of persecution that scatters believers beyond Jerusalem. What looks like tragedy becomes the catalyst for mission.

And standing in the crowd is a young man named Saul.

Stephen’s courage plants a seed that will later bloom in Paul’s ministry. It’s a reminder that faithfulness often bears fruit we never get to see.

Why Stephen’s Speech Still Matters to Me

Stephen’s diatribe isn’t just a historical moment. It’s a spiritual wake‑up call.

It challenges me to ask:

  • Where am I resisting God’s voice
  • What “temples” have I built that limit my view of God
  • Am I willing to speak truth even when it costs me
  • Do I see the bigger story God is writing

Stephen’s words are uncomfortable—but they’re also liberating. They remind me that God’s presence is not confined, His messengers are often unexpected, and His mission is always bigger than my comfort.

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Starting the New Year Luke 9:22–25: What This Passage Is Teaching Me Right Now

Every time a new year rolls in, I feel that familiar mix of excitement and pressure. I start thinking about goals, habits, improvements, and all the ways I want the next twelve months to be different. But this year, something unexpected happened: Luke 9:22–25 stopped me in my tracks.

In this passage, Jesus speaks openly about His suffering, death, and resurrection. Then He turns to His followers—including me—and says, “If you want to follow Me, deny yourself, take up your cross daily, and follow Me.” And then comes the line that hits me hardest: “What good is it to gain the whole world, yet lose yourself?”

As I sit with these words at the start of a new year, they’re reshaping how I think about everything ahead of me.

1. I Need to Begin the Year With Honesty, Not Illusion

Jesus doesn’t pretend His path will be easy. He names the cost. That challenges me, because I often enter a new year with unrealistic expectations—hoping for ease, momentum, and quick wins.

This passage pushes me to ask myself:

  • What truths have I been avoiding
  • What responsibilities do I need to face
  • What will faithfulness actually require of me this year

I’m realizing that a meaningful year starts with honesty, not hype.

2. “Take Up Your Cross Daily” Is the Rhythm I Actually Need

That word daily keeps echoing in my mind.

I tend to think in big resolutions and sweeping changes, but Jesus invites me into something smaller and steadier:

  • Daily surrender
  • Daily alignment
  • Daily choosing what matters over what’s convenient
  • Daily returning to God’s purpose

It reframes the year for me. Instead of one giant leap, it’s 365 small steps of obedience.

3. I Need to Reorder My Loves Before I Set My Goals

Jesus talks about losing my life for His sake in order to truly find it. That forces me to look at what I’m centering my life around.

New Year’s culture tells me:

“Make this year all about you.”

But Jesus gently redirects me:

“Make this year about what lasts.”

Before I fill my calendar or chase new ambitions, I’m asking myself:

  • What am I really living for
  • What am I willing to sacrifice for what truly matters
  • What loves need to be reordered

This passage is helping me recalibrate my heart before I plan my year.

4. “Gain the World, Lose Yourself” Is the Warning I Didn’t Know I Needed

This line feels painfully relevant.

I can chase success, productivity, money, image, and status—and still lose the most important part of me. I can “win” at life and still lose my soul.

So I’m redefining success for the year ahead:

  • Depth over speed
  • Character over image
  • Purpose over popularity
  • Faithfulness over frantic achievement

Jesus measures gain differently than the world does, and I want to learn His way.

5. This Year Isn’t Just About Improving Myself—It’s About Following Jesus

Most of my New Year’s goals revolve around self‑improvement. But Jesus isn’t inviting me to become a “better version” of myself. He’s inviting me to become a truer one—someone shaped by His life, His love, His priorities.

This year, I want to see it as:

  • A journey of discipleship
  • A year of becoming more like Christ
  • A year of aligning my life with God’s story

It’s not about self‑help. It’s about surrender.

A Final Thought

As I step into this new year, Luke 9:22–25 is calling me to shift my focus from self‑centered resolutions to a Christ‑centered way of living. It’s challenging, but it’s also freeing. It reminds me that the most important work I’ll do this year won’t be about gaining the world—it’ll be about guarding my soul.

Living with Integrity: A Biblical Journey

As I reflect on my walk with the Lord, one truth stands out above all: living with integrity isn’t just a good idea—it’s the foundation of a life that honors God. The Bible calls us to be people of uprightness, honesty, and wholeness in a world that often rewards compromise. For me, this has been a lifelong pursuit, guided by the timeless words of Scripture in the King James Version.

The book of Proverbs is rich with wisdom on this topic. One verse that has anchored me is Proverbs 10:9: “He that walketh uprightly walketh surely: but he that perverteth his ways shall be known.” This reminds me that when I choose the path of integrity, I walk with security, knowing God sees and sustains me. On the flip side, shortcuts and deceit always catch up eventually.

Another favorite is Proverbs 11:3: “The integrity of the upright shall guide them: but the perverseness of transgressors shall destroy them.” Integrity acts as my compass. It guides decisions big and small, keeping me aligned with God’s will.

My Early Struggle with Honesty

Early in my career, I faced a temptation that tested my integrity. I worked in sales, and there was pressure to inflate numbers or bend the truth to close deals. One day, a big client asked me to overlook a minor issue with the product to secure the sale. It would have meant a huge commission—and no one would likely find out.

But that night, as I prayed, Proverbs 20:7 came to mind: “The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him.” I thought about the example I wanted to set for my family. Could I look my kids in the eye if I compromised? The next day, I told the truth to the client. I lost the sale, and my bonus suffered that quarter. But something amazing happened: the client respected my honesty and later referred even bigger business my way because they trusted me. God honored my choice, and it deepened my faith.

Learning from Job’s Example

The story of Job has always inspired me during tough times. In Job 2:3, the Lord says to Satan: “And the LORD said unto Satan, Hast thou considered my servant Job, that there is none like him in the earth, a perfect and an upright man, one that feareth God, and escheweth evil? and still he holdeth fast his integrity, although thou movedst me against him, to destroy him without cause.”

Job lost everything—his wealth, health, and children—yet he clung to his integrity. He refused to curse God or pretend his suffering wasn’t real. I’ve had seasons of loss too: a job layoff, health scares, and family struggles. In those moments, I cried out like David in Psalm 25:21: “Let integrity and uprightness preserve me; for I wait on thee.” And again in Psalm 41:12: “And as for me, thou upholdest me in mine integrity, and settest me before thy face for ever.”

Choosing integrity meant being honest with God about my pain, not faking strength. It meant forgiving those who hurt me and continuing to tithe even when money was tight. God preserved me through it all, just as He did Job, restoring joy and provision in ways I never expected.

A Small Daily Victory

Not all tests of integrity are dramatic. Sometimes they’re in the everyday moments. I remember finding a wallet in a parking lot with cash and cards inside. No one was around. It would have been easy to pocket the money and drop the wallet in a mailbox. But Philippians 4:8 challenged me: “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest… think on these things.” (Though not directly about integrity, it calls us to honesty.)

I tracked down the owner through the ID and returned it intact. The man was overwhelmed with gratitude and shared how he’d been praying for honesty in the world. That encounter encouraged us both, and it reminded me that small acts of integrity glorify God and witness to others.

Walking Surely Today

Living with Biblical integrity isn’t about perfection—I’m far from that. It’s about repentance when I fall short and relying on God’s grace to stand again. It’s choosing uprightness because I fear the Lord and love His ways.

If you’re reading this and wondering how to start, begin with prayer: Ask God to search your heart and guide your steps. Let verses like these become your daily bread. Walk uprightly, and you’ll walk surely.

In a world of gray areas, Biblical integrity shines like a light. It’s blessed me beyond measure, and I pray it does the same for you.

What about you? How has God taught you about integrity? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments.

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